LifeSaver asked:


I tried to re-finance my 1st and 2nd mortgage with these two banks and was not successful due to owing more on my mortgages than my house is worth (& high credit card debt of about $25K). My spouse and I have student loans to pay for ($60K) and it is very depressing for us. What can we do to fix this financial and emotional problem. More details..we make over $200K per year but the bills and unexpected situations keep coming up. It is now affecting our marriage and we may be separating because of this financial tornado. we have two kids and a dog to care for also. It is tough but right now we are just maintaining to pay bills from pay check to pay check. How do we attack these issues without killing one another and becoming angry about it when we bring up the subject? Are there any highly seasoned real estate agents or financial gurus (anyone w.knowledge) to help us? Any internet or 800#’s? We need help REALLY bad!!

KERMIT